Saturday, December 19, 2009

What advice would you give to an incoming highschool freshman?

Im going to be a freshman in high school in August.


Im still worried about it though,like how to deal with:





1.My older brother who is going to be a senior in the same school as me?





2.Girls who think i will be thinking im all that?





3.People hearing fake stupid rumors?





4.Falling behind in school?





%26amp;the one thing im really worried about is,falling in love with a total complete ***hole?





Please help me and answer my questions!What advice would you give to an incoming highschool freshman?
Just Be Prepared for all of the ABOVE %26amp; A LOT WORSE things to Happen. High School are the WORST YRS OF EVERYONE'S Life.What advice would you give to an incoming highschool freshman?
My advice would to be to forget about all that stuff (except falling behind) and start to focus on college!





Get yourself in a good club like Key Club or Anchor Club, something where you can do community service and meet a lot of great people.





Only focus on one or two however, don't get overwhelmed.





When you focus on everyone else, that is when you start to fall behind. Time to put on your big girl panties and just don't give a care about what people say. Always tell the truth and always be nice.





Remember if you can't say anything good don't say anything at all. When you hear a horrible rumor about yourself or someone else, ignore it. If other people find it to be true. then they don't know you and are prob not worth your time.





And sadly, if you fall in love with a complete a hole then just remember there is ALWAYS other guys out there. Believe me, high school is just a small percentage of all the guys out there. How many people have you heard that have married, and stayed married to their high school sweethearts. If you end up meeting the one, good for you! If not, oh well get over it :D.
1. If you and you're can tolerate each other then that might be fun a lot of my friends have older siblings and they get to meet a whole bunch of people.





2. Don't worry about girl, you're going to have high school drama just deal with it as it comes and ignore it. Be the bigger person.





3. IGNORE THE RUMORS! People who start rumors have nothing better to do with their lives then mess with yours.





4. Do your homework, and keep school your first priority,





Don't look for the boys, let them find you. Keep your friends close and check for their opinion and advice. You're in high school enjoy it while it lasts and don't worry about the boys because you have all your life to worry about them.





You're getting ready to enter one of the best times of your life, enjoy it while lasts because it will go by faster and faster.
A really big tip I can give you is... DO NOT SLACK OFF. This is the year where everyone starts to compete for a spot in the ranks. Make sure you do your homework, study, etc.





Ignore your older brother if you want. I don't think you might be seeing him that much since he'll have different classes and probably in different halls too.





You don't need to worry about the girls for this year.





Ignore the rumors. If there's a rumor about you going around that's false, tell them it's false.





I suggest you go to tutoring if you'll be falling behind in school.





Don't fall in love with some1 in high school. There's a Hugeeeeeeeee % chance that you guys will break up before your senior year. Get a GF instead in college. That's where all the smart/mature girls are.
It all depends on the highschool that you go to,





1. with your brother, he has his own friends and you most likely wont see much of eachother unless its a really small school





2. There are always going to be bitches in school, theres really no changing that. Just ignore the bitches, the only thing you really can do is just be nice. If they dont like you thats their problem.





3. Just be nice to everyone and nobody will have a reason to start rumors about you, and if they do for some reason start rumors about you, ignore them. If you act like you care, then they'll know how to get to you.





4. Falling behind in school is not a hard thing to do. Just try your best, and if you start to fall behind in school, get tutoring or have another classmate help you.





5. Just be aware of what kind of guys you like, and dont fall for any one who isnt worth it.





Hope i helped (:
Ha ha, this is cute...





Your older brother is there to help. Use him as a resource, and do not be embarrassed of him. People will respect the bond that you two have.





As for three and four, the only way you will have to deal with those situations is if you put yourself in them. Make friends that like you for who YOU are; not what they want you to be. Don't try to be part of the ';popular'; group by sacrificing who you are, if your high school is even small enough to have a ';popular'; clique. Just be yourself, and happiness will follow no matter where life takes you.





School is the most important thing! Do well in your classes. That always comes first and that is what will matter most after high school. You will not remember what kind of jeans you wore or hairdo you had, but you remember what you learned and how you used it. That is what matters most.





As for boys, just be smart. And don't give yourself up for them. And don't do anything you will regret (sex, losing your friends, changing who you are, etc.). You know how a jerk acts. Use your brain and when you see a jerk, don't date him. Its as easy as that.





Good luck in high school and remember, do well in school and be yourself.
1. That can be both a good thing and a bad thing. He might be able to help you or you guys might not see each other in the hallways at all. Who really knows. I wouldn't worry about it.


2. Don't worry about girls like that. They're stupid.


3. Again, don't let it get to you and you won't have to stress over it.


4. Just do your homework and find the study schedule that's right for you. You'll get it!


5. Just make sure you know the guy and can pretty much have a good idea of his character. And you know what? **** happens. You'll learn from it...





I'm ending my freshman year in five days and I survived by following these guidelines and a few others I had to figure out myself throughout the year.





Good luck!
Its really nothing big. Just don't change who you are on the way. I hate when girls do that. Don't do stuff with older guys to get attention or to become popular. In the end, older guys will most likely use you even if they say they love you will all their hearts. Total poop.
It'll be overwhelming in the beginning but if u just relax and get use to the flow of things than you'll be fine
u r just going to learn about it on your own by experiencing it. No offense but maybe you could end up on the other side being the a*shole spreading rumors and being a jerk.
Chill, its not how movies make it out to be.


Really just middle school, except some kids got cars.
its not even bad


get over it and go


youll be bored and tired of it after the first year
study hard and keep your grades up. do not worry about what everybody else thinks.
dont try to act all that.. and just be cool but not to much..


senior hates those..
don't **** or in your words have sex
lol its rly not that bad, trust me
High school is not that difficult. Stay out of the bull s***. That's all. Seriously, give your teacher a good impression it WILL help you in the long run. AND RESPECT THE UPPERCLASSMEN. Its hard on them to having new annoying immature freshman to deal with.








1. If you and your brother don't get along well, don't pay much attention to him with your friends. Let him live down his last year!





2. There is a lot of drama, but your best to stay away from all of that. Don't add on, don't gossip or make those cocky remarks. Trust me, one day you might say something to the wrong person. Let people think whatever.





3. Same thing like I said, ignore it. If people confront you about it, just say sure whatever. Don't make the rumor out to be something its not. The more attention and gratitude you bring to that rumor, the more drama you'll cause.





4. DON'T MESS UP YOUR FRESHMAN YEAR! Then sophomore, junior and senior years, you will have to retake and retake all your failed classes until you finish all your course classes and have all your credits. :/





I take it your talking about guys when you say ***hole, lol. But there will be plenty of guys, don't waste your time on those long relasionships. Im not sure how you are as a person, but just don't throw your heart out there to GET hurt. Be cautious and lay off any of your friends previous ex's! Ha haa, major trouble there.





Hope I was helpful (:


good luck!

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