What is good advice to tell my friend that thinks shes ugly and fat?

My friend thinks that shes really ugly and fat because a few people have said things like that to her. whats good advice to tell her so that she doesnt think that?What is good advice to tell my friend that thinks shes ugly and fat?
compliment her sporadically. One day tell her her hair looks awesome. In two days tell her Her makeup looks great. In a few days tell her that her outfit is really cute. Slowly build that confidence back up. And the only reason girls ever care about their weight is because of boys... so tell her that there are a lot of guys that like a woman with curves. (i know for a fact) Tell her that if she is unhappy with herself (not what other people are saying) then she just needs to do something about it! like exercise or diet.What is good advice to tell my friend that thinks shes ugly and fat?
im the same





tell her thaat the ppl saying those things are idiots


and that she is not fat ad ugly...but chances are she wont believe you








instead of keeping telling her she is pretty go something helpful





if she wants to exercies you do go with her





OR giv her loads of hugs and call the ppl who call her fat something worse





if you want to know what to call them email me
Without being too forceful about it just tell her that everyone is different ,and being fat does not mean one is ugly and if someone says so that means somehow due to some good or special quality of hers they are jealous and so they want to belittle her .You can also tell her that if you think so yourself others will never respect you so first respect yourself and stand up confidently so that no one has the courage to say that again.
Well, if she is indeed fat, you can't exactly lie to her. I'm overweight and I hate it when people try to make me feel better by telling my I'm not. Ugliness, on the other hand, is relative. Some people may see her as ugly and others may see her as pretty. What she really needs to do is ignore the negative things people say about her. It doesn't sound to me as if these people are her friends to begin with so why should it bother her what their opinion is of her? Remind her that the people who care about her the most, you, her family, etc., don't see her as fat or ugly. I hope this helps. She sounds like she's got a really good friend.
Honey you are the only one that can change you if there is something you don't like about yourself then change it. And please don't worry about what other people see because people that talk like that is insecure themselves and need to put someone else down to make themselves feel better. God created us all and he created us all different for a reason you can have a beautiful heart and it will show on the outside and this makes a special kind of beauty. When you love yourself and is happy stupid comments and stupid people will no longer bother you. Tell your friend to stay just as she is beautiful inside and out.
That's very rude and hurtful of people to say things like that to her. Just say things to her like people will accept you of who you are and that maybe a guy will even see that. Boost her confidence a little bit. Spend time with her. Maybe go out with some friends along with some guy friends? Answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Tell her that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. And not to listen to what other people say, that they're just jealous.





btw: If these are skinny girls saying this, they are jealous, no joke.
tell her that the inner beauty is more important ......... and she will find some one to see that .......and everyone is beautiful in some way .......
Tell her everyone thinks that about themselves at some point in their teenage life.
try reverse psychology. tell her shes ugly and fat.
if its true, she can fix fat but not ugly, so tell her so.
cant let ppl put u down u are who u are noones ugly were all different
Tell her to get a life